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So I though imposter syndrome was a geek feminism phrase.

But this article gives a good perspective.  Also, it might come in useful some time and I want to be able to find it again.

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I've been enjoying reading the Geek Feminism Blog some of it is relevant to being an engineer and other bits are just making me look a bit harder at the way my world works. 

It's also been raising the consciousness of friends and I've had a couple of discussions of "mansplaining" with the rest of my family.  After some arguing to and fro, we decided to call it just 'splaining, because apparently I can be guilty of it too.  They were hard discussions, with  feminism bagging and a couple of "you're wrong" when I described incidents that had happened to friends.  [personal profile] tangent_woman , your trailer reversing story has featured heavily in our discussions.

Today Sneetch told me a story about an incident at school and it restored my faith in my parenting and the child I'm raising.

Sneetch watched someone driving the school go-cart around the basketball court. He admired the drivers skill, the driver took the corners well and drove fast but in control.  When the car stopped he noticed that the driver was a girl and was then astonished to hear the teachers and male students giving her advice about her driving.  He made a point of going to the driver and complementing her on her skills.  He was also pleased to see one of the boys drive too fast, spin and stall.

My answers

Mar. 2nd, 2009 07:06 pm
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I'm being interviewed for a national idustry magazine and I'm crafting my answers. I'd really like some feedback on getting the feminist line right, while making sure I don't come across as either a weirdo, hard liner or that I compromise my ideals.

I particularly hate this set of questions:

What inspired your career choice, especially as the industry is one that is traditionally (perhaps notoriously) male dominated?

I get asked this question all the time and I have to answer that it didn’t occur to me that male domination would be an issue. I was a very idealistic feminist when I chose to do an engineering degree but I was also looking for a job which used my maths/science talent. I knew I didn’t want to be in a lab, or a teacher; I wanted to be doing something real. Then we pulled apart a single cylinder engine in my first thermodynamics prac and I knew I wanted to be a Mechanical engineer! Building Services came later, after working at the Gas and Fuel New Technologies division where I learnt about co-generation, ice storage and dessicant based air conditioning. I realised that the way I wanted to make a difference to the world was by designing building systems that use less energy.

Is this changing, or is it still Blokesworld?

Gender is not really an issue for me in my interactions with people. What people do and say is much more important, so I haven’t spent a lot of time counting and estimating what sort of minority I’m in. I’ve just gotten on with things and made sure I introduce myself to the women I meet at industry events..

Has the profession reached the point of post-feminism? Are you treated differently than men? Victimised or marginalised?

The industry almost certainly hasn’t reached the point of post-feminism, but I’m not a good person to ask if I’m treated differently from men. My best friend and I shared a physics class in year 12; she complained bitterly of discrimination and I got all excited about learning to solder. I keep a postcard above my desk which says, “It’s not because you’re a woman, it’s because you can’t urinate standing up”. I keep it to remind me that some of the things that I experience might be hidden discrimination

How do we expect an employer to treat a man who has 4 children and regularly arrives late or leaves early due to their family priorities? Or a man who arranges their work deadlines around having dinner with the family? Or chooses to work a four day week? Or has his partner bring the baby in to work every day for bonding time. In comparison to that man, I am not treated differently. Everybody is treated differently from others in some respects. We all have our own foibles, ways of working and day to day needs.

If I’m treated differently from men there are good things and bad things that come from that and just like anyone else I take advantage of the good things and work around my disadvantages.


Do you feel you’ve had the same opportunities for advancement as men?

Yes.
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At my new workplace the women's toilets are locked and you have to collect a key everytime you head there. They are located in the stairwell so you sometimes also need a key to get into the stairwell. The men don't have a locked toilet.

I hate it.

I hate that I have to announce to the office (yes, nobody's interested or notices, this is my rant) that I'm off to the loo for the 5th time this morning. I hate the conversations, "where's the key?" and "Oh yes, Jane often puts the key in her pocket". I hate having to wait for the key to come back when I've finally dragged myself away from my work to attend to my exploding bladder. I hate talking about my toilet habits, even the ones that don't involve actual waste.

I hate the constant subtle reminder that
we are not safe
men are able to look after themselves and women aren't
women need to be protected.

It's not true and I'm not convinced that the proles around here are able to see beyond the bullshit.

Yesterday the office was broken into and the key to the toilet and stairs was stolen. I've been letting my inner feminist out and trying to agitate to remove the key requirement altogether. I've been dreaming of putting a rant similar to this on the backs of the toilet cubicle doors and providing a wedge to prop the door open. Now I don't think I'll bother.

Today a male manager came to us and asked that we take responsibility for the re-keying of the toilet lock. He apologised and said he was only doing it because the women in his workplace were asking for it. They don't feel "safe".
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